I was doing so well or so I thought. I was trying to move on. I was detaching and getting on with my life. Then he starts asking me to dinner with him and the kids. It happened again yesterday. I declined but it gives me anxiety. I'm back to having anxiety daily and trouble sleeping. What makes a WAS start contacting the very person they couldn't wait to get so far away from? Don't they know it confuses the left behind spouse? Although I know it means nothing for our relationship it still confuses me.

I know my old marriage is over but I can't help but hope a new relationship can be created. Then he asks me out a few times and he is all I can think about. I find myself on the couch lacking energy. I know he isn't doing it to be cruel but I'm getting fed up. I may accept next time just to tell him face to face that he needs to stop and that I've moved on. Will it ever end? I'm tired.


M12
Kids 2
ILYBINILWY 08/05
Reconciled 05/06
S07/12
Moved back 03/13
Separated Again 06/24/13
Back Again (his choice) 02/14
Leaving again 03/23/14
DIVORCED 02/15