Yes I realise my Husband is not a prize. There was nothing wrong with the person I was before, am now. I have hobbies, good friends, wonderful children and a very supportive family. It was the medication that radically changed my personality, and this is what caused him to switch off. This is where I am unclear on what I should be doing?
I struggled with this too when I first arrived here.
I was a good husband and when I looked in the mirror there seemed like their was nothing to FIX.
Took me along time to realize that I was co-dependent, enabling and a FIXER. Was told by a wise DB'er that most LBS's fit in this category. So we all have thing to work on it just may not be as obvious as, we are overweight, or talk to much.
