I do have a few selfie friends, nice people but self absorbed. I think if I were more photogenic I'd be more enthusiastic haha.
These girls he is chasing are immature party babes but they are also fun, interesting and smart. Unfortunately. Nothing I can do. It makes me feel sad that he has moved on to all these women, but I realized that I can probably come to accept it. Even if he runs off into the sunset with one of them... That's his choice and if that makes him happier then that's the way it goes.
More and more I am enjoying my single independent life. When I imagine WAH or even any guy hanging out in my house all day, wanting to agree all the time on what to eat and what to do, it just seems so boring and stifling. Perhaps this is a backlash to my H as he was extremely clingy. I've always been independent and cherished my alone time. I've realized that I gave that up to have a relationship with him, and not in a healthy way. I thought it would hurt him if I asked for space, so I never did.
I think I should cherish this gift of time and enjoy being alone. If I do want a man in the future hopefully I can find one who is kind and sweet and trustworthy but independent!
