You are absolutely right in everything you said. This has been one of my problems all along. I have been selfish and never thought about the other person. Luckily through reading the Divorce Remedy and really looking at myself, I did not react to what I was feeling. I had to stop and think about what was really bothering me. I am proud of my self for handling it the way I did. You are right, she did take time from her job to check on me. I did leave her a nice note last night thanking her for watching the kids while I have been seeing my dad. I did tell her what a wonderful wife and mother I think she is. Yesterday she texted me in the morning and said she hopes I have a good day and that she loved me. That felt really good. She has not done that in a really long time. My dad is doing better thank goodness. Thank You for your prayers.
Joe, so glad your dad is doing better. And well done for not reacting, and stopping and thinking about your reaction. The note sounds nice, as does he response!
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
I know the feeling. I have been trying to analyze everything my wife does also. She is so up and down. I am learning alot through this process. It is tough. We have not had any physical contact other than a hug since before Halloween. Most of the hugs have been a quick one armed pat on the back. This morning and tonight have been the first time she actually hugged me like she used to. I'm sorry you were down yesterday. The emotional roller coaster effects us to. I have good days and bad days. I have been learning alot from reading the Divorce Remedy.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
And well done for not reacting, and stopping and thinking about your reaction. The note sounds nice, as does he response!