Originally Posted By: Train
Don't worry about what she wants. Or the "last thing" she wants. She is probably scared sh!tless right now (but might not show it).

I know this must scare - or at least rattle - her. (I've been there; thankfully, mine was deemed benign after a biopsy.) It can be an eye-opening experience, to be sure.

She needs you. Even if she doesn't say it.

Time to rise and shine, Rzr. You're the one. BE the one.


Scared shitless about covers it. I know that chances are it's benign, but I'm scared too.

She said today that this wasn't fair to me, that she was putting me in the position of being there for her with our M being in the state its in. She didn't want me being there for her messing with her clarity. I just told her that her health was top priority right now. We would work on the rest in good time.

No doubt some fear-induced spew is coming. If there's ever a time to STFU, it's now.

Time for calm
Time for positive
Time for leadership
Time to step up.


Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood