Hi all. It's been a long time since I've been here. Not much has changed still getting a divorce, sort of its on hold.H's attorney is still doing all she can to milk money cause conflict. They cancelled the court date in October because she couldn't get our documents together. So we made it through Thanksgiving and Christmas. Christmas was bad we had a huge fight over nothing he was just angry and lashing out. Then I found out that his gf was supposed to come up here and see him over Christmas because he did not have the kids, I did. And I guess he told her not to, he wanted to spend time with his family. But boy was he angry at me. I have noticed that when he has conflict or fights with her he takes it out on me. Of course he does! I've always been as whipping post lol. So since December I have decided to do all I can to be super sweet and super nice. Then Friday I said something he didn't like and game on he lashed out at me and we got in a fight. Later on that day, I sucked it up and called him and apologised and said I was wrong. Even though it wasn't all at fault. He did tell me that these broke up with her because she's long distance he works too much and the rest of the time he spends with our kids. He's rather be with our kids he said. They made it one year. Anyway he sent me a text saying we can never get along you just can't do it. You only made it three weeks and we started fighting. He hates me and leave him alone. I guess I should be happy that he was counting the weeks that we got along. I was just shocked that he even noticed. He still determined to get a divorce he said he called his attorney last week I'm just trying to get another court date. Its fine. Maybe he's always been an angry person and I just never noticed I don't now. Maybe he's angry at me because they broke up or he just really hates me!! We don't talk about anthing except the kids anymore, he doesn't ask me to help him with any of his job hunting. He is determined to be independent. Thank you for listening.
excuse my typing mistakes if there any I'm doing this on my phone.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
