Things that need to be done around the house that I cannot do. Living rural presents problems, little things like our rubbish bins need to be emptied now and its something that requires his utility to do, I cannot do it nor can I get anyone else out here too. I know he realises they need to be done and he does do them, but do I leave him to do it in his own time or when they really need doing, or just put up with things not being done. I knows it seems like really small things, just the small things are a part of the big picture I guess. We are not together and it feels like I am still relying on him to do things for me when I shouldn't maybe?