I can only give you my definition of a process I've tried to get a grip on. My definition would be to drop the attachment that allows you to be emotionally hurt by an action or lack of action of whomever it is. In other words you can still love them, still hope to be back with them but your life isn't about missing them or hoping they walk back through the door and their choosing to do something without or instead of you doesn't rip into you.
Hopefully the vets will be able to explain it better than I can but on the whole thats how I look at it.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
