Getting back to me

[mustardseed]

I hear you on that end--the super-dad that has come out, making all sorts of fun plans with the kids that I had long ago suggested we do as a family. But part of me knows he won't maintain it. That helps me stay positive despite the resentment. I have no idea what he is doing when he goes out. Before he used to go out but I always knew where he was. I used to drop him off. Sometimes he would order us some take out from the bar he hung out at and I would stop by to pick it up. He even invited me along some times. Now he has found a different stomping ground and is staying with other friends. No one picks him up or drops him off. He won't even say who he is meeting up with. I don't think there is an OW, but I think he is playing games. He likes that it drives me crazy. I have to stop letting him know that it drives me crazy--or just simply stop letting it drive me crazy. If I had a social life that would be a lot easier.