I have no advice, but I am in pretty much the same situation as you regarding GAL! So I am posting so I can follow. I do have problems and I guess at this stage it's a kind of resentment. My husband gets to have the life of Riley, off socializing more, doing what he wants when he wants, actually getting our more than when we were together. I wonder why we couldn't do all these things while we together, why now? I wanted to get out and do all these things before with him and our family!