Vanilla, very interesting train of thought particularly given my in house experience. I don't want to read too much into it as we can't believe what they say but at a point if upset my wife did say she could see knew I was improving myself but she 'doesn't want to see it'
I think its about a balanced differentiation, too much change looks like a crisis or panic reaction. Gradual but distinct I think is probably best as its most credible and preserves that link to who you were. At work we talk about salami slicing budgets.
Edz, how is your wife's body language toward you these days?
And another extended weekend with S thats gotta be good, irrespective of anything else.
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Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress