I think I took things too far and got pursuing, either that or I'm overanalysing. Which I do a lot of, and I know I need to stop, because it's not helping me detach.
Last couple of days H has been fairly flirty and touching me more than usual, so I tried to get a bit flirty by text (our texts have just been about practical, house-related stuff lately) and I think I went too far and scared him.
It started with me texting him after he left for his ski holiday last night and he's been texting me back last night and today:
Me: Thank you for putting away the laundry and stuff, it was really nice to come home to a clean house. 😊 Thanks for putting it away even though you must have been in a rush. Hope you have a great time, enjoy your snowboarding! H: That is okay. Thank you. See you next week H: I hope you had fun tonight. Was the Dancing good? Me: I did, thank you. 😊 Who do you think was better - the professional dancers or us? 😉 (£5 if you get the right answer 😛) <<I'd gone to see a tango show and H and I were joking beforehand about who would be better, since we did tango classes together over the summer H: Us Me: Congrats, you win £5 (or a pint!) Have a nice flight! H: Thanks we just got to our place. It is very nice. Hope you are well
Did I scare him off by saying he'd won a pint (implying I'd buy him a drink)? "Hope you are well" just sounds so formal - like what he'd say to his boss in an email, rather than me. Or am I just overanalysing?
Maybe I should be happy he told me he got there safely (he *never* does that and used to think I was crazy if I asked him to).
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
