While I think the OWs he is chasing after are nice girls with a lot going for them, they are also the types who post selfies all day long. Get a life girls. Isn't there something else to photograph than you looking surprised or making a kissy face?
IRK! These girls are automatically out of contention for me (well, I'm too old anyway). I've said elsewhere that I imagine myself arguing with any pretty girl I meet, but these... Well: I can't even. She'd have her hands all over me, her cleavage in my face and laugh at everything I say, I'd be looking for the nearest exit anyway. Major red flag for immaturity, lack of self-confidence, constant need for validation, narcissism, etc. Your H is after them?! That's fantastic news: I can't imagine he'll have an easy time past the third date, if he has the patience to make it there. If you don't R, then I'll pray that he ends up with one of them.
Do not compete with these girls. Can you imagine any of them posting the mature insights that you share here? Can you imagine them being pleasant partners for their boyfriends? ARGH! The only immature woman I'm willing to consider taking in my life is my WAW. We have a history, a bond and two kids. And she doesn't even post selfies.
Be LisaA1; she has a lot going on for herself. Keep growing and most certainly do not look behind or beneath you for inspiration.
------ PS: Apologies to potential selfie girls on these boards. Hope you find a good man.
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