I think it's a sensible suggestion! Our MC works with us individually, and he has two other docs besides her.

I keep thinking of my H saying he just wanted to be away from the stress that was our relationship. So I am careful to not let anything get heavier than if has to right now.

Like you, I am giving and giving and getting little chunks back. It's easier to deal with when I realize this is a strategy. And I'm still thinking things over and if at the end of the day my needs aren't being met when I decide done...well, it's some peace not to push or rush.

Hugs! Happy weekend, hope all continues to go well!


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.