Oh Mighty I am so sorry for your pain. This man is not your H. on e we really and truly accept that then the possibilities for our own future can. E revealed. That stranger who looks like your H is standing in the way.
Try to remember that fact when it gets tough. Try to remember that fact when you are having a hard time envisioning all the wonderful possibilities for a beautiful future.
Eventually this man who looks like your H and sounds like your H will not have so much power in your head. The more this new man shows his character the easier it will be to recognize that he is not the man you married.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou