She does consider our marriage over and therefore feels it's OK to date. And she's gone off for the evening now. Didn't know when she'll be back.

Funnily enough she hasn't told the kids it quite the same terms. They know she's gone out to see OM but i think they think he's just a friend. I told them the truth just now, that's she's dating. That she thinks our marriage is over and doesn't want to work on if but I do. And I'm really upset about it but there's nothing I can do.

I also said I'm thinking about moving out. I not sure yet but I'm thinking about it. S12 asked where will I stay so I said my mums.

They didn't really want to discuss it any further and disappeared to play computer games again.

I really don't know what I can tolerate. And I do need to see a counsellor before I make any hasty decisions. Hey it's only been eight months.

Last edited by Old Dog; 02/07/15 04:51 PM.
M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner