Maybell - This last post made me wonder if there is an equivalent book for No More Mr Nice Guy for women. As you might have understood from exchanges elsewhere about the book, it's about how expressing our needs and ensuring that they are met actually makes us more attractive and pleasant to be around. I sense that you will not go back to the way you tolerated your H's inadequate behaviour*, it could be interesting to find a framework of just a structured thinking about your new self.
* He might not have realized it but this removal from engagement and responsibility was probably making him unhappy too.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
