This is an area where you had an opportunity to lay a boundary. ALL your plans for the day got shifted because of her. Are you not capable of buying your own 12 yo son shoes? Why did she need to come along? And why could you not have said, "no need for you to join us, we have plans after. I can handle this."

Keep an eye out for things like this, OD.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.