So when W gets back from Cancun on Sunday or Monday, I'll say this:

I've been striving for over a year to rebuild our marriage and there's nothing more that I would like than for both of us to be happily married to each other, and in light of that I would like to renew our vows, perhaps on summer solstice. And in preparation for that we would need to commit to reconciliation right away. I'll give you the week to think about it, because I can no longer live in limbo. Let's have dinner on Friday when we can talk and you can let me know your decision.

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014