Heather- thank you so much! F.U.N. is definitely what I need. And YOU are amazing! I have learned so much from your posts to others- thank you!

123Gwen- thank you! I saw on your thread you are having a rough time. Hang in there. Time really does help in healing.

So I interesting happenings today. STBX and I met with a counselor who will start seeing S8. We discussed current situation with family, S8's personality and any other stressors. STBX seemed fidgety. After the meeting I asked if he was ok with everything ( previously he had been not so sure) and he said yes he was fine. I said " you seemed uncomfortable, you kept playing with your shoes". He said he had a lot on his mind.
Then said " your lawyer should get the final settlement agreement today. I responded that I had already received it but my lawyer is out of town until Monday so will sign it then. He said" ok no problem. Just wanted to tell you and also let you know nothing changed from our discussion. I figured it's better to tell you in person".
He seems more uncomfortable with the idea of the divorce than I do right now. Not sure if it's because he is having an " oh chit" moment or not.! Regardless he has some work to do on himself.

Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
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