Why don't you arrange a time to spend with your friends and leave W to take care of the kids by herself? Hey, you do need a break too!
Trying to figure out a date/time to do that... Definitely on the agenda for the near future... As for this weekend -- we have quite a few activities with the kids (sports, school stuff), so I'm just planning to be as nice as possible regardless of how much of a monster she wants to be.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015