It has restored the balance in me, so it was a wise move! I have read DB and have a personal coach, one session, DR is in the mail! My situation was that my contraceptive pill changed not only my health but personality, something that was not discovered until January of this year. He is aware of the diagnosis because I had the discussion with him, wanting him to know that there was no reasoning with me while I was on it in the end, I even thought I was going insane! I am 100% back to me now, all health and mental problems just wore off one by one after I stopped taking this pill. During all the dramas he was aware I was searching for answers as to why the sex drive was gone, we had a heart to heart about that only a month before the split, so he knew I was upset it was missing in our lives, we were like pornstars previously and he did say in January I was the best sex he has ever had, this of course was pre the OW, so I don't know now if that is the case, and quite frankly I will never ask!! I have not seen nor heard from him for 4 days now and don't expect to until next week. It has been his normal, when not having our daughter, to disappear from Friday through to Monday, assuming this is the time spent with the OW as he does not appear to spend much time with her otherwise.