IMHO you gave up pretty easily. It seemed like you couldn't let go of your pride and ego.
And let's face it, if your W didn't say she was leaving, you wouldn't have changed to begin with. In fact, didn't you say that you were the one that threatened to leave and D her? No woman wants to hear that if they don't give their man what he wants he's going to bail on her. That's one thing you don't seem to understand.
The OM was there for her and accepted her the way she was. I don't think he ever threatened her with leaving her. The number one need of women is security and safety. It just seemed from the way you described things, you didn't give her that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
