"Just a small example in my own situation, my H told me at BD that we had to part ways because we have nothing in common and want different things. Two months later he told me we should be friends because we have so much in common and think the same way about everything. Ummmm...ok. At BD he told me he didn't respect me. Three months later he was going on about how much he respects me and how he tells everyone how amazing I am."

Lisa, isn't that interesting what your H said. I know we all know - don't believe anything they say - but to see such a direct example of it. It does really highlight - best to take everything with a huge pinch of salt!


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus