Hi Lisa - sorry you were feeling down earlier, you seem such a positive and upbeat person, but I think we all have days like that.
Don't worry too much about the new OW - she'll not be a patch on you, she won't have the shared history etc, and the chances are he'll soon tire of her like he has the others.
You seem to be doing all the right things, and it's true what others are saying - 8 months really isn't that long in the scheme of things.
Take care
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014