Thank you so much Claire and Raliced for your support. You are both right and of course I should fight for what I am entitled to.
I spoke to one of H's family members who I am very close to and explained what was happening. I wanted to give her some prior warning and I was so surprised when she told me I had her full support - she said I have to look out for myself after all I am on my own while H has OW to help manage the bills.
I have been feeling strong and positive for the last few days, hope it continues.....
Thanks again.
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014