Raliced, I can so relate to what you've written. Isn't it weird how they can become total strangers in such a short time after spending years together. My H doesn't seem to want to engage in any conversation with me, even if its about the kids. He only wants to discuss money matters. I know nothing about his life, I feel as if he is completely finished with any dealings with me because the kids are older. It's as if he's planned it that way. But there's still so much goes on in their lives that he doesn't know about and has no part in.
Hope you feel better soon.
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014