Okay -- to all my MLC expert friends here... Questions...
On Monday we are supposed to meet to continue discussing terms of separation. At our last meeting (about a month ago) she requested some information from me regarding the electricity contract and the schedule & contact info for all of the home maintenance.
I sent her the info today via email. In the email regarding the home maintenance, I simply stated that for the spring service calls I would go ahead and schedule these items. She fired back wanting to know if I expect that I will still be living at the house at the time those service calls are due and if not, then to please not schedule them so she could schedule them around her work schedule.
The tone of her emails back to me today have been rather nasty.
My initial assumption is that she's just super angry and being Monster over the fact that I am still unable to move out. But is it at all possible that by providing her with the info that she requested -- info that moves us farther along the path towards separation and showing that I am moving along with the process -- that by giving her that it could be causing her to spin more?
Reminder -- she just got back from her trip on Wednesday and was somewhat nice to me Wednesday evening and Thursday morning, but last night and this morning she was a cross between Monster and Ice Queen.
I know -- I probably shouldn't even worry about what is going on with her... Except that her tone in her emails is affecting my mood today... Really not looking forward to her coming home tonight or having to be around her this weekend.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015