Jer on top of all the crap you are going through, I am truly sorry that we do not YET live in a world where all marriages are legal and each spouse is protected by law.

In a civil case you might find sympathy as a domestic partner from a jury.

I wish it were different, in other cases where the spouse is protected by law, I suggest that since they want the D they can leave.

You know your situation better than me. In some aspects of this you don't budge or give in on money and house those are the ones, normally.



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