Jer, I am very new to your thread...so please forgive me if you have stated this before.
Why are YOu moving out?
No need to forgive :-)
She owns the majority % of the house because she has always paid the mortgage (higher income earner) and I do not make enough -- nor can I make what she makes -- in order to buy her out and/or pay the mortgage.
She has threatened to take me to court to force me out of the house, and I have requested time for me to find a full-time job that will allow me to support myself and my share of support for the kids.
She is very impatient with the time it is taking me to find a job and living with her is becoming more and more miserable for me by the day -- especially after this trip she took.
We are a same-sex couple in a state where marriage is not legal -- so I have no legal standing with regard to the house like I might if we were a straight married couple going through a divorce.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015