My wife started small changes around 41. Than about 4 months after that it really started changing. Really concerned about her appearance, wanting to be left alone, ordering beauty products she never used before, always mentioning guys checking her out, not talking to the older kids or anyone else in the family. She even hid in her room for quite awhile. Also she has had some menopause symptoms. Headaches, night sweats, aches and irregular things. I have tried to be there for her the best I can. Right now I am just giving her space. I learned alot about what I need to work on after our last relationship discussion. She told me about all the things I have done through our past that hurt her and how I made her feel. She also told me that she just wants somethings for herself right now. Her own room, her own job and a new truck. I have never denied her any of these things, but for some reason right now she thinks I have. So I am trying to work on whatever I can so I don't make her feel that way. I can see how alot of things I have done have made her feel like that. But that was not my intention, but I do need to work on these things.
My W has also pointed out to me that guys hit on her all the time.
