I guess I am wondering, would this be seen as pressuring him to make a decision? That's not what I am trying to do, but I don't get the impression he is trying to make a decision. I think he is just waiting to get his stuff in order, and I would like a heads up as to when this is all going to "go down" if you will.

In a way, I also want to let him know that I don't think we are reconciling by "playing house". I want him to know that I have accepted that we will be separating. I just don't know how to communicate that without first getting him to verify 100% that is what we are doing.

Last edited by Marylov; 02/06/15 05:36 PM.

Me:30 H:31
D1
T: 7 years M: 3.5 years
BD: 12/2014
3 month S starts: 2/2015