You are absolutely right in everything you said. This has been one of my problems all along. I have been selfish and never thought about the other person. Luckily through reading the Divorce Remedy and really looking at myself, I did not react to what I was feeling. I had to stop and think about what was really bothering me. I am proud of my self for handling it the way I did. You are right, she did take time from her job to check on me. I did leave her a nice note last night thanking her for watching the kids while I have been seeing my dad. I did tell her what a wonderful wife and mother I think she is. Yesterday she texted me in the morning and said she hopes I have a good day and that she loved me. That felt really good. She has not done that in a really long time. My dad is doing better thank goodness. Thank You for your prayers.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"