I need some help. I've been thinking a lot recently how I never apologised to H, and I don't know if I should.
Do you think this 'need' to apologize has anything to do with impatience? Are you feeling like you need to do 'something'? I ask because in retrospect I often felt that 'need' as well- 'maybe she'll reconsider if I send this email/text??'
However, after saying that, I did send my W a short email a month or so after BD per suggestion of my IC. It was just a short apology and I thanked her for speaking up. That I was going to use our S as an opportunity to work on myself with the hopes that I'd be able to show her my changes at some point down the road. She responded positively.
