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I also love the cheese post V.....Wallace and Gromit sprang to mind....Cheese Gromit? Just eating Halloumi fried in sweet chilli sauce as I write!

My H used to be a big cheese eater before he went on his big diet and lost 2+ stone...maybe that's what he's missing?

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Arghhh so much food talk...cheese at that... no food for edz till tonight...probably late as well shocked

But...

Went out at lunch time and the measuring and clothes were not lying. Was going to wait until the next milestone before new clothes but I presently have exactly...1...pair of trousers that dont look baggy and scruffy as theyre too big and cant have that. So not quite size I wanted but 5+ inches smaller waist than July size (and they were a.tight and b.vanity sized according to my tape measure).

And the right inside leg measurement so no half mast.

W has been on the phone to me and texting again, some onfo on traffic nearby (huge accident causing mayhem) but also talking to me about stress with s on home ed and saying to him as a last resort she'll send him back to school and she can then go to work. Just validated and suggested a boundry that she say if he wants to work outside of school he has to respect her decisions and rules or he will need to go to school and have teachers do it (i now seem to be dbing between w and s smirk )

Anyhoo w thought I was heading straight there but I want have a shower and get changed first (dont want to show up after 8 hours here want to be clean tidied and smelling nice - not just for w but then I get to sit around for 3 hours at card club dont want to be in the same clothes - urghh)

Next need some new t-shirts and tops as mine are getting a bit big and baggy at the sizes I have, fine at home but do nothing flattering for me, of course still have some muffinness and wobbly bits to shift yet.


And you lot no its the wrong trousers jokes!!!

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Well that was all a bit rushed but got s to his event.

Went home got showered changed nice smells etc then nice blue jumper and new jeans with shoes hair gelled etc.

Went round and W's friend was there since sam and her s were on a play date this afternoon. She hasn't seen me since august and got a wow in front of w. W said ooo new trousers just said well yes the others were far too big now. Flat was a bomb site as boys had been playing and had dinner etc and w was chatting.

We had to skidaddle to get here on time so picked up some post and off we went. W has texted to say that was manic and she now has a flat to tidy. Had taken a bottle of red round for her so sent back well have a glass of wine or 2 or 3..

Rather happy with the way that went wink


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Were going to lock soon so here's part 12


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No idea who sam is s obviously... Tablet typing time


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Edz, that's great to get a wow from W's friend.....I think things like that can't fail to get our WAS's thinking. At times, I think they see us as a pair of unwanted old slippers, when to others we may be seen as attractive, interesting and 'a catch.' Does no harm at all for you W to see that someone else might think that.....bet you're glad you went home and changed now!!


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Thanks toots. Yes I did feel like a piece of furniture at times. Who knows what w will think, I hope something interesting, know it made me feel good wink


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A very positive interaction and you sound dry PMA. well done mate.

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Cant remember the last time i got a 'wow' from someone i know that wasnt followed by 'you look tired'

That sounds like a good day and some well timed new clothes


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress
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