Hi Barry - sounds like you're doing pretty well in the circumstances. You seem more aware of the DB principles now, and to be evaluating things in a more measured way.....good for you. These things are important skills for getting through - surviving - and thriving beyond our sitches. And of course, our sitches don't determine our lives going forwards, we do that for ourselves.
As you say, it's still very early days, and you can expect some twists and turns in your sitch. But having a good attitude in place to weather these, grow and learn is a great starting point.
Best of luck to you matey! :-)
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus