Ugh...what are we going to do indeed. I'm sure it's just a phase that we'll pass through in due course but it does feel pretty crappy for the time being.
When can you guys file in your state? I guess 12 months less 28 days is my next big milestone - H may let his intentions be know around then (beginning May). In the meantime I intend to keep doing what I have been doing. Like you I'm questioning whether more GAL is the answer (it doesn't feel like it).
I'll leave you with these random thoughts: 1. Wow - where did those months go? The first few seemed to take years, but I swear the last few have passed in the blink of an eye, don't you think? 2. In the grand scheme of things it's just 12 months. That's only about 1/82 of my life expectancy vs 15/82 for my R (I forget how long you guys have been together). Probably does deserve a little more time investment before turning my back. 3. Labug only found DB 7 months post BD and things were pretty dismal contact-wise at that time. Everything is possible.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
