Hi T Mom - thanks for your vote of confidence on Edz thread! We do seem to need fortitude in droves in these sitched don't we? Sometimes it doesn't seem easy to come by!

It sounds like you're doing pretty well - in a healthy place, even if it isn't easy. It's good if things are more peaceful though. Maybe make the most of that and really appreciate the calm you now have. There is a flipside to that I found (lonely) so I have established some new routines at home - and GAL of course - to deal with that...it just takes a little time.

And I agree with V. I think you did well on the boundary front - good for you! T x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus