I continue to be impressed by your notes vanilla, Thank you.
There was some money to do with the kids savings which is different (and was given to her as she asked). From my perspective the complaint is firstly untrue, legally incorrect and in all practical terms completely irrelevant.
I shoukd be used to it by now but the way my Wife's family are able to not even notice their double standards continues to irk me. I am irked.
I don't want to ignore the letter from SIL but recognise going there isn't going to go well so I think I will send a message which is just the first bit about being disappointed she returned the presents and wishing nephew and niece well. Not feeding the troll.
I do need to resist the urge to talk to my wife about it though
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
