Thanks M~I will reread and respond to that later. Right now I'm looking for advice on this little bomb H dropped. He got a job offer in the Middle East.

We were sitting at the dinner table, both girls were away from the table for a minute and he gave me this news. That's all that was said, didn't discuss anything further because D16 sat down.

Obviously he is thinking about it, although his back and workers comp claim is definitely an issue. I'm not sure if I should bring it up again or wait for him to say something. Also, how do I validate and show support for this???

I don't support it at all, however I know that it's not my decision to make, especially considering the status of our R! How do I DB this?!?!?!?

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since