Hi Mighty - I like the video clip. Made me cry. Anyway, I've been following your sitch from the very beginning. You - fantastic, fabulous you - have SO much going for you. Don't waste another minute dwelling on his mess. I KNOW that's easier said than done, and I backslide still today, but really, you've got your life to live. He is going to be in la-la land for quite a while yet. And to me, his spending time with HWW seems to be so much more about the baby, than it is about her. He will get tired of her craziness. This is no long-term thing you're looking at. No way. She's a freakin' nut case -- and you're NOT. He's got to sort this stuff out. Let him. Concentrate on your life. When he's ready to lead a sane life again, you'll know. Then you can decide what you want.

But, I always think, if it really is true love, you will find your way back to each other. And then, you'll both be different people -- better, stronger, wiser people. Nobody knows what the future holds. But, in the meantime, while we're 'waiting for it', we need to experience life and fully live. Or -- in the wise words of Ferris Bueller -- 'we just might miss it'!


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15