TicToc, just to echo what everyone has already told you, tell her you are good/great/fine. Just be sure you don't go overboard with it because your W will know its fake. If you told her you're better than fine, doing fantastic, and its been what 1 month since BD? She's gonna know your full of [censored]. Personally, when my W first asked me those questions, Id say "I'm doing ok, doing fine" and then smile and leave it at that. IMO, any more than that, this quickly, still living together, your W will know if you're just bs'ing her. Especially if your GAL activities haven't been too crazy.

Bottom line, you can fake some of it, but don't overdo it.

In the meantime, what are you doing for YOU? you mentioned some of your GAL activities, are you seeing an IC? What are your 180s?

Last edited by TLEE86; 02/06/15 01:38 AM.

ME: 28
W: 24
M: 2.5yrs
T: 5yrs
BD: 22 SEP 14
W Leaves: 5 OCT 14