It went well! He came home early-ish and as soon as he walked in just stopped and stared at me and went "wow, you look good!"
He then asked if he could have some dinner (I'd made some for myself after the cinema with a friend, it was one of his favourite dishes, a japanese green tea soba noodle dish, so I set a bit aside for him). He was so happy with the food and hugged me twice to thank me. I'd already eaten but he kind of asked me o sit with him while he ate so I did, and we had a nice chat. Made him laugh a few times.
Interesting thing came up during dinner... He brought up an argument he had with his best friend tonight, and mentioned he got really defensive but he wasn't sure why, because he friend wasn't having a go at him, but at his company. Then he said he realised he was getting defensive because of his fear of conflict and he mumbled something like "you were right" (fear of conflict came up as one of the reasons for DB). I tried to validate the he!! out of him but looking back I wish I'd also mentioned I was proud of him for realising this. I really am!
Would it be too late to tell him tomorrow?
He asked if he could fix something on my phone (he noticed something broken and he works in IT) and then asked me to watch TV with him.
He gave me another hug, and a quick head massage (my favourite) to thank me for dinner, while we were watching TV.
He started out on the opposite side of the sofa but kept workinh his way closer and closer until eventually his head was nestled up against my arm. Not a full on cuddle, but still a lot more touching than usual!
Then we got ready for bed, and he came and said good night to me and gave me not one but three hugs good night.
So now on to my plan to wear sexier pyjamas. Will see what his reaction is tomorrow!
H announced that he will be coming home after work tomorrow to pack his bags (his original plan was to take his bags to the office and leave straight from there). I've got a call with my DB coach so I'll have to leave the house now.
Will try to use this to my advantage by getting all dolled up and then mysteriously leaving to "meet some friends" as soon as he walks in the door (if only he knew it was actually to call my DB coach, lol!).
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
