So your OW is not readily available, you did say that you are gettign some looks from your W, more so than previously right? Take in consideration she is a MLC'r ... so nothing makes sense, but quite possibly maybe the trip was a nice getaway from the pressure (my readings would say MLC'rs would love this) ... however possibly the OW hype was not all that she might have imagined it to be.
Jack is right ... be you, the most amazing you you can be .. not so much to win W back, but for you. "I am just the horrible enemy who has made her life miserable for the past 10 years" Oh I can relate ... I was that person for 2, then 4 then 10. Today during the spew I got the "We are not compatible" .... after 24 years this one came up, who knew? They are in crisis and miserable, remember its so much easier to look at those who are closest to blame than to look in that mirror. Its going to take time .. ALOT of it. Let em vent and spew, take the high road, soon you will start to see why it had to be 'this' way .... I can not speak for anyone, but I know that God did this to me, there was not way I would have made the changes I have without this MLC crazy train pushing me to do so.
