Wife Wants Out

[Ontheup]

Leon

I hate to break it to you but I think you already know the answer. My wife was exactly the same. If you read my story one of the last things she did that confirmed it for me was that she took her phone into bathroom when having a shower. I mean wtf! She might as well have just put a sign on her back. The next night I got access to her phone and had all the proof I needed. Everything then just dropped into place. It's always the same. It's amazing really from a human habit point of view.
It's up to you whether you need to know. I know I did. Let me brace you though. The pain is almost unbearable. Starsky is right as well. An affair for a woman is not about sex. You have to see past that or it will drive you mad. Women have pa for the emotional connection. My wife is with a man that I know 100% she would never look twice at in the street. He is a lot older, not good looking smokes drinks just not her type at all. Her dream man is Zinedine zidane (french footballer) who like me is bald but and this the big but he has connected with her where I have been failing. This is how an affair starts and continues as long as those needs are being met. It's usually a friend or work colleague.
I hope for you I'm wrong, maybe I am, it just all sounds so familiar.
Be strong keep busy enjoy spending time with your kids