Jbird#2 Separated Living Together Need Advice

[Jbird]

25yrs thank you for all the time you spend helping me and others! You are like the two coaches who could make me excell. They were not scared to push my buttons even if they new I might not be happy about for awhile. I have the utmost respect for them. Every time I read on of your posts I gain more respect for you.

June, thank you for your encouragement. DBing can really help us so don't give up!

Today W sent this text: "I just want you to know I have an appt. on the 20th"

I texted: for ? She texted back: attorney
I'm sure this is in revenge for D25's post on fb. I was upset for a few minutes but I okay now. It is what it is.

25yrs I think I have to drop the rope, no more fixing meals for her, no more butler duties etc. She has mental illnesses, but I can't sacrifice my health and help someone who doesn't want me around and that thinks I am the reason for her unhappiness.

I have to quietly get my ducks in a row, I have oil royalties to protect and should get some legal advice. Since I have been the homemaker for the last seven yrs. I have taken care of our special needs daughter. SND20 will live with me after the D, she cannot stay by herself.

It may have been somewhat bad news from W today, however I didn't shed a tear nor am I feeling depressed! I actually feel some relief she told me so I can make plans.