W texted me and now wants to just talk later tonight at home.
S16 failed driving part of license test today and she feels like he is very upset and she would rather be at home with. We both hate it for him and are very sad for him about it.... In the grand scheme of things I know it's not huge and he will be fine but I understand to a 16 year it's huge!
In discussion w/T here is what we have come up with for conversation if it can be worked in.....
"We have had a couple of mentions about lately about getting to know each other and who we have become and both wanting a good R moving forward. I am still very interested in this and I think we can do better. I will go through this process with you but maybe we can find a way to give ourselves some time to see how things work out.
My focus will be on protecting my time with the kids and myself financially - because that's what is important to me and who I want to be."
Thoughts/comments?
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
