WAW affair admitted 2

[Ontheup]

Mr bond. You're crushing me again are you this tough on everyone

I'm not asking her to tell me she's with him I already know she is. What I'm asking is don't come in and spin some story about where you've been today. Just don't say anything. The secret is out you don't need to keep spinning it.

Cake eating has been going on for months. I have been walking on egg shells eager to please scampering after every bone. In fact I've been like that for the last few years. As she has become more successful and me more domestic dad she lost a lot of respect for me. On top of the issues with my mum and wife feeling like she is a single mum. This is the crux of our issues I'm trying to be as normal as possible for sake of d8 but yeah of course I'm not good. She still wants the family home life but obviously loves OM and what she gets from him.

As above I don't want to hear " oh I was round at OM tonight" but just don't say anything. There is no need to keep making the stories up. We're all in on the secret now.

Ok I was mind reading again. This was my interpretation of what she was saying. I've fallen in love with another man, please don't hate me cos I still want to be your friend. The hate comments were part of a much bigger R talk.

I'm filled with hate. ....to be honest until yesterday when she was just lying making a story up I was feeling slightly better. Then yes that was a kick in the gut and it has made me angry

I'm a northerner. Complaining is what we do cos it rains all the time. In all seriousness I didn't take the opportunity to do so. I followed your advice.