Hey Don't knock plan B most people are living theirs.
Besides plans in general are usually just a list of things that don't happen.
It's hard not to snoop, I know, and I know you can find any sort of reason to snoop. You should stop though, best case your going to find something. Worst case is you don't...so you keep looking until you do or make up bigger monsters in your mind.
Let me suggest something about the 'emotionless" responses. Why? Is being the ice queen going to make her miss you more or...will it justify the warmth of the OW arms?
You don't loss anything Right Now by being a little more warm.
There is a time and place for chilly stares and emotionless soul sucking responses, but right now? She has an opportunity to see the good. Hell maybe even miss or question not wanting it?
This is not a game...and yet, it is a game.
You can responded nicely AND still go out and be mysterious if you want to play it that way.
It doesn't hurt you right now.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
