Hello, toots and edz! I really impressed at the fortitude that you both have. This stuff about not thinking about them is a tricky one.
I am in the very beginning of H not living here. His relocation is, by no means, permanent. It is "until finding something else." So who knows what or when that will be... and with whom? That's the killer for me. I feel like I can handle just about anything but his being with an OW. He is needy, so it is probably just a matter of time. Although, maybe he'll surprise everyone and take this opportunity to grow up.
The important part truly is about focusing on our goals, and happinesses... don't think that is really a word, but it fits so well! LOL.
